| 3 MINUTES READ There is a particular kind of tension that shows up as one season winds down and another approaches. For many people, September carries the weight of a mental reset: school resumes, business targets tighten, end of year pressure starts creeping in, and the year suddenly feels like it is running […]
Category Archives: Wellbeing
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Aug
Aug
| 3 minutes read Few words in mental health carry as much weight, and as much misunderstanding, as “schizophrenia.” It shows up in movies as a villain’s backstory and in everyday conversation as a careless joke about being “of two minds.” The reality is far more human, and far more treatable, than the stereotypes […]
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Aug
Aug
| 3 min read When people hear “eating disorder,” many picture a teenage girl obsessing over a mirror. That picture is incomplete, and it is part of why so many people, children, teenagers, men, new mothers, and even older adults, suffer for years without realizing what they are dealing with is a real, diagnosable […]
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Aug
Aug
| 3 min read Every August, National Wellness Month invites us to slow down and ask an honest question: how well am I really doing? Not just physically, not just financially, but as a whole person. At Nubi Wellness Center, we believe the answer to that question always runs through one place: your mental […]
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Jul
Jul
International Self-Care Day falls on the 24th of July every year. The date itself carries a message: 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, self care is not something you schedule around your life once in a while. It is meant to be part of every single day. But for many people, that idea […]
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Jul
Jul
You tell yourself you will sleep when you are done. Done with the deadline, done with the chores, done with the endless WhatsApp messages. But days turn to weeks, and “sleep when you are done” quietly becomes a lifestyle. What if the exhaustion, the short temper, and the racing thoughts you have been battling are […]
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Jul
Jul
“You this girl, always resting, are you not lazy?” If you have ever heard a version of this line, from an aunty, a colleague, or even your own inner voice, then you already know how deep the confusion around self-care runs in our culture. For many Nigerians, taking time to rest, say no, or simply […]
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Jun
Jun
He still goes to work every day. He still laughs at jokes in the family group chat. He still shows up at owambe parties looking sharp in his agbada. From the outside, everything looks fine. But inside, something has gone quiet. The joy is missing. The energy is gone. And he cannot explain why, because […]
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Jun
Jun
In Nigeria, a man who cries is called weak. A man who says “I’m not okay” is told to “man up.” A man who asks for help is quietly judged as someone who has lost his grip. So what does a Nigerian man do when the weight becomes unbearable? He smiles. He disappears into work. […]
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May
May
We Teach Children So Many Things. But Do We Teach Them How to Feel? From the moment a child can sit upright, we begin preparing them for the world. We teach them to read, to count, to write their name, to say please and thank you, to share their toys, to work hard in school. […]
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